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The Journey of Change

Presented by
Maya Kollman & Sophie Slade

$750.00Add to cart

The Journey of Change: Guiding Couples from Reactivity to Renewed Connection

The Journey of Change is a warm, highly practical advanced Imago course created by Imago Master Trainer Maya Kollman and Senior Clinical Instructor Sophie Slade to answer a core clinical question: why do couples so often leave a powerful Behavior Change Request Dialogue inspired and committed, yet struggle to follow through once they get home. Drawing on years of experience, they designed this training to address the deeper shifts that must occur in a couple’s inner world, nervous system, and relational dance for new behaviors to truly take root. The course offers a clear, hopeful roadmap for helping couples move from chaos and discouragement toward a more conscious, connected, and loving relationship.

Throughout the course, participants are guided through nine essential shifts that underlie real, lasting change: from certainty toward curiosity, reactivity toward intentionality, blaming toward self‑reflection, symbiosis toward differentiation, complaints toward requests, negativity toward possibility, individual frustrations toward the relational dance, childhood story toward adult narratives, and adult narratives toward new behavior. The training is very hands‑on, weaving short theory pieces, stories, demonstrations, triad practice, and rich discussion. Therapists leave with concrete ideas, tools, and skills to help couples move through these nine shifts, as well as deeper awareness of how their own character structure can either support or block change in the therapy room.

Learning Objectives

After this training, participants will be able to:

  1. List the nine relational and intrapersonal shifts that support lasting change in couple’s therapy.
  2.  Explain how a Behavior Change Request Dialogue can be used to support the transition from insight to sustained behavioral change.
  3. Facilitate an Imago dialogue that helps partners identify and interrupt a recurring negative interaction pattern.
  4. Differentiate certainty-based positions from curiosity-based responses within couple interactions.
  5. Apply strategies that shift partners from emotional reactivity to intentional, chosen responses in dialogue.
  6. Transform partner blame into self-reflective, self-responsible statements that identify personal needs, contributions, and defenses.
  7. Identify signs of symbiosis or fusion in couples and implement interventions that support differentiation.
  8. Restructure complaints and generalized criticism into specific, respectful, actionable behavior-change requests.
  9.  Use Imago dialogue processes to help partners clearly express wants, needs, and desired behavioral changes.
  10.  Reframe negative interaction cycles by helping partners identify strengths, resources, and possibilities for new relational responses.
  11.  Analyze individual partner frustrations as components of a reciprocal, co-created relational dance.
  12.  Identify common defensive postures that interfere with safety, connection, and behavioral change in couple’s therapy.
  13. Select verbal and nonverbal interventions that promote emotional safety, connection, and co-regulation between partners.
  14.  Explain how childhood experiences and attachment-based narratives can shape present-day reactions and relationship patterns.
  15. Guide partners in constructing a more cohesive adult narrative that integrates early-life experiences with current relational realities.
  16. Translate an adult narrative and future relationship vision into specific, observable new behaviors through therapeutic enactment and rehearsal.
  17. Develop a case formulation that integrates the couple’s relational dance, defensive postures, attachment narratives, and change goals.
  18. Identify ways the therapist’s own character structure, assumptions, or defensive responses may unintentionally interfere with therapeutic effectiveness.
  19. Develop a professional growth plan identifying specific practices, consultation supports, and learning resources for continued integration of Imago interventions.
  20.  Evaluate a couple’s readiness, barriers, and supports for maintaining new relational behaviors between therapy sessions.
Continuing Education

CUE Management Solutions, LLC is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. CUE Management Solutions, LLC maintains responsibility for this program and its content.

CUE Management Solutions, LLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Psychology as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed psychologists #PSY-0242.

CUE Management Solutions, LLC is recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education for licensed social workers #SW-0925.


Participants can earn 24 CE credits upon successful completion of this training. Full attendance is required; no partial credits will be offered for partial attendance.

Please note: Participants should verify with their specific state licensing board to ensure these credits meet their continuing education requirements.

Details & Pricing

August 14-17, 2026
10am – 5pm Eastern, each day
Online, via Zoom

Full Price: $750

IRNA Members get an additional 15% off*

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$750.00Add to cart

IRNA Sponsored Training

Imago Relationships North America (IRNA) serves as an administrative sponsor for this training by providing application processing, registration, and logistical support. All decisions regarding eligibility, admission, successful completion, and any certification or designation as a Workshop Presenter are made solely by Imago International Training Institute (IITI) and the course faculty. IRNA does not grant or guarantee any certification or professional credential.

By registering for this course, you acknowledge that IRNA’s role is administrative only and that IITI and course faculty are solely responsible for admission, evaluation, and certification decisions.

Cancellation

Registration cancellations made up to 30 days prior to the start of the course (the date of the first live class) will be refunded in full (less transaction fees). Cancellations made between 30 days and 1 week prior to the start of the course will be refunded minus a $50 administrative fee. Cancellations made less than one week prior to the start of the course will be refunded minus a $100 administrative fee. No refunds will be given for cancellations after the first live class. All cancellations, questions, and concerns can be submitted to info@imagorelationshipswork.com.  

Disclosures

IRNA strives for full compliance with the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), by being committed to providing access, equal opportunity, and reasonable accommodations for participants with disabilities.

Prior to the beginning of the program, any known conflict of interest or commercial support will be disclosed. In the case where there is no known conflict of interest or commercial support, this will be made evident also. Information concerning conflicts of interest and commercial support is also disclosed via promotional materials that are made available to any potential participants prior to registration for the course.

About Dr. Maya Kollman

Maya Kollman, PhD has been a leader on the Imago International Training Institute (IITI) Faculty for 30 years, Dr. Maya Kollman, PhD, is the only active Master Trainer in Imago Relationship Therapy. Trained by Harville Hendrix, PhD, Maya is certified to lead and train both the Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find workshops, along with all basic and advanced clinical courses.

Maya provides the tools needed to develop a version of your best self.  With her rich appreciation of complex theory coupled with practical skills, you will learn to live more joyously and more consciously in all relationships. 

About Sophie Slade

Sophie Slade, PhD, is an Imago Senior Clinical and Facilitator Instructor who has developed a workshop that has been accredited by the Imago IP circle, called “Satisfying Sex for Committed Couples”. She and her passionate partner of 52 years have presented this workshop around the world and have written a book by the same name which was published in 2025. Her interest in enhancing sexuality arose from the many years that she and her partner struggled their way through the sexual power struggle. 


Sophie started her training as an Imago therapist with Harville Hendrix in 1991 and has been working with couples and individuals using the Imago paradigm ever since.  She also offers workshops and training to therapists and facilitators around the world and on-line and remains passionate about her work with clients and trainees. Drawing on her bawdy humor and compassionate acceptance, Sophie creates a safe environment for therapists and clients to talk openly about sex in ways that enhance pleasure and connection.

Partial scholarships are available for individuals identifying as Black, Indigenous, or People of Color (BIPOC).